REFLECTIONS

As many of you know I am a recovering alcoholic and have been for 23 years, blessed be. My wife Kathy is also a recovering alcoholic and has been for 33 years. I can share this because she has given me permission to do so. Last night we hosted the women's AA Christmas potluck. This is an informal AA gathering that happens the first Saturday of each month, providing that someone volunteers to host it. This is an open gathering meaning you can bring someone with you as long as they are female or identify as female.

Last night the discussion turned into one of reflection of this past year, which it usually does at this particular potluck. Many shared of gratitude, some shared of the trials and tribulations of being newly sober and some shared of losing loved ones and their struggle with that. The emotions were strong and powerful.

As the women were sharing I was reflecting on the length of time that I have known many of these women. I moved to this area in 2001. My first sponsor when I moved here was at this gathering last night. She and her wife have become our dearest and closest friends. One of the first women that I sponsored was here last night. We I have become great and loving friends. There were so many good friends that have helped me and my wife through many of our good times and bad times both together and separately were here last night. This is where we have made our long lasting and loving true friendships. We all help each other.

I was also reflecting and feeling extremely grateful, while the discussion was going on, that these women are my family of choice and wow what a great feeling that is! Each time we hug each other and say our I love you's it means something. It isn't just something to say. I do love these women. Each one of these women, whether I've known them for years or months or days, carry a tiny piece of my heart with them.

Last night at this gathering we laughed, cried, felt each other's sorrow and pain as well as each others joy and gratitude as we do each and every time we come together in and out these women potluck gatherings.

I am truly blessed and grateful to have these women in my life!

These are my thoughts and feelings from Jillsville.